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BDSM, Collared, D/s, Domination, M/s, Master, Owned, Respect, submission, Trust
That’s what started what i consider One of the best relationships in my life, and it’s still only just over 2 months old!!
It started on a fetish site. After losing my husband i found comfort in reconnecting with the kink community on this fetish site. Joining a 50+ group, i read a post by a new member. Being sociable and feeling a kinship for His story, i responded to His post with a welcome to the group. Next thing i get a private thank you note from Him and a true F/friendship is born.
Over the next 2 months W/we chat and get to know each other. B/both of U/us grieving for O/our losses, W/we offer each O/other a shoulder to lean on, and a non-judgemental perspective on O/our feelings about the losses and the Lifestyle in general.
Although He is a tiny bit older than me and Dominant to boot, i “mother” Him at times, and He laughingly accepts that need within me, although He has snapped a time or two (growly Doms!). i can’t help it. i make a close connection with Someone and They become as important to me as my own family. Actually i do consider Him family – i’m just not giving Him a formal title. He’s unique and with His permission, i get to keep Him *grins*
Over the last couple of months i think W/we have both been growing and learning how to navigate the world alone. i submit to Him daily in the form of advising Him of my whereabouts and plans for the day. i know reporting my movements to Him gives me a sense that Someone out there cares about me. It’s comforting.
i get to travel vicariously through His job. He sends me pics along His journey of places i may never get to see. it’s a beautiful relationship and i feel so lucky to know Him. i hope to get to meet Him in real life later this year when the weather turns warmer. i’m praying that things work out for that meeting.
During O/our experiences during this period, He’s asked me write here on this blog about my thoughts and feelings on my experiences with Him. i have willingly done so, though i am not a writer. He used my latest post as part of His blog giving me the greatest gift (in my opinion) a Dom could bestow on a sub outside of a collar – the right to be a part of His life.
Quote from His post: “I’m sharing this writing to demonstrate the mental connection that can occur between people. This submissive will always be a part of My life now.
If I am fortunate in finding a submissive, or she finds Me….this friendship/association will have to be accepted as a part of Me.”
If i am fortunate to find a Dom, or He finds me, this Friendship/Association will have to be accepted as a part of me. He is now and always will be my “Other”.
Thank You Sir for sending that thank you note.
silencedsiren said:
It does feel good to have that kind of friendship and to submit to someone Who genuinely cares about you. *sigh* i hope your heart heals as You deal with your loss and as learn to live on your own.
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darkgemdom said:
you’re welcome c
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cailin said:
Thank You Sir…You’re stuck with me now *grins*
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